Which #MeToo book should I read first?

In the early fall of 2019, a trio of books arrived all addressing the topic of sexual harassment, the criminal justice system’s handling of sexual assault, and nefarious agents working to cover up sex crimes. It was a lot for readers to take at once but with Harvey Weinstein standing convicted of two counts of sexual assault, now is a great time to pick up these books.

Can I ask an obvious question? What’s #MeToo?

In 2006 civil rights activist Tarana Burke coined the phrase “Me Too” to express sympathy and common purpose with survivors of sexual assault.

“On one side, it’s a bold declarative statement that ‘I’m not ashamed’ and ‘I’m not alone.’ On the other side, it’s a statement from survivor to survivor that says ‘I see you, I hear you, I understand you and I’m here for you or I get it.’”

In 2017, actress Alyssa Milano used the phrase as a hashtag, #MeToo (without attribution to Burke) to start a discussion on social media in response to a New York Times report covering accusations of sexual assault against Harvey Weinstein and his efforts to silence his accusers. So “Me Too” isn’t specifically about Harvey Weinstein, but its current cultural prominence has a lot to do with the accusations that came to light against him.

Wow. That’s a lot. What are the 3 books?

She Said: Breaking the Sexual Harassment Story That Helped Ignite a Movement by Jodi Kantor & Megan Twohey

She Said is written by the New York Times reporters who wrote the 2017 report after researching and interviewing subjects for months. They learned about a mountain of settlements and non-disclosure agreements piled atop a shocking pattern of behaviour. This book is the story of the investigative journalism that drove their work at the Times and includes the authors’ impressions of how their reporting altered how society at large thinks about sexual assault.

Catch and Kill: Lies, Spies, and a Conspiracy to Protect Predators by Ronan Farrow

Catch and Kill is written by Ronan Farrow, a writer for the New Yorker. He stumbled across rumours of a powerful sexual predator operating in the movie business, and like Kantor and Twohey, he investigated and spoke to accusers. But Catch & Kill focuses on what happened to Farrow when his pursuit of the facts unleashed a series of threats to his personal and professional safety.

Had it Coming: What’s Fair in the Age of #MeToo? by Robyn Doolittle

Had it Coming by Robyn Doolittle looks at what happens to sexual assault cases when they’re reported to the police (specifically in the Canadian criminal justice system). It’s based on reporting she did for The Globe & Mail where she learned that a very high percentage of reports get labelled “unfounded” and are dismissed outright, usually on the basis of a single police officer’s opinion formed without training in the psychology of trauma, and under a mistaken understanding of consent as a legal concept.

I don’t know the names of many reporters, so why are these names familiar?

Ronan Farrow is the son of actress Mia Farrow (and he is estranged from his father, Woody Allen). Robyn Doolittle was the Toronto Star’s City Hall reporter during the troubled administration of the late Rob Ford (which she wrote a book about). As for Kantor & Twohey… if you recognize their names now, it’s likely a product of effective book publicity.

How do I choose which of these books I should read?

If you really want to read about the crimes of Harvey Weinstein, then it’s between She Said and Catch and Kill.

Between those two books, it’s a question of what you want to find out most. She Said is a tale of classic journalism; our heroes are the reporters whose wits lead them around every obstacle thrown in their path to ultimately arrive at the facts. If you want a story that celebrates the dogged, rigorous pursuit of truth, Kantor & Twohey’s She Said is the one to read.

Catch and Kill is more of a page-turner, though no less serious a work of reportage than She Said (the work it’s based on won Farrow a Pulitzer Prize for journalism). Where Kantor & Twohey report on the crimes and victims, Farrow covers the cover-up. If you’re intrigued by how such violent and abusive behaviour was kept from the public’s knowledge for decades, and you’re up for a thrill ride where a journalist is pulled into their own story and forced to take extraordinary measures to bring truth to light even if it costs him his life, then Catch and Kill is your book.

Robyn Doolittle’s Had it Coming does a great job laying out the social and legal forces at play that have led to a system where reported sexual assaults yield a 5% conviction rate — and why we tolerate it. She presents some challenging ideas about what justice might need to look like to avoid a backlash against #MeToo, and where she sees gaps between what the legal system is for and what society seems to be demanding of it. She writes clearly and can keep a reader engaged through some tricky explanations, which is the kind of steady-handed writing this topic needs right now.

I want to be informed, but I also have only so much time to read. How do I manage that?

There are a few things you might try. First: all 3 of these books are available as audiobooks, which can help squeeze more reading hours from a day. As for how to tackle them, because She Said deals with the aftermath of the authors’ reports being published, it’s likely to be updated with a new afterword now that Weinstein is headed to prison — so you could wait until it’s re-released at the end of June. In the meantime, keep yourself busy with and get educated by Had it Coming.

Ronan Farrow, Robyn Doolittle, and Jodi Kantor & Megan Twohey each published books about #MeToo in the fall of 2019

Originally published at https://www.kobo.com on February 25, 2020.

We make reading lives better.

Get the Medium app

A button that says 'Download on the App Store', and if clicked it will lead you to the iOS App store
A button that says 'Get it on, Google Play', and if clicked it will lead you to the Google Play store